by Kara Oh, The Heart Whisperer
The first step to finding a healthy relationship or rehabbing the one you have is to know what a healthy relationship looks like.
A healthy relationship is a partnership in which each person helps and supports the other in being their best. |
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In a healthy relationship, each of you inspires the other to continue to grow and expand their potential for loving, giving, and being happy. In doing so, it helps to understand the roles men and women naturally play in a healthy relationship.
Women are the natural caretakers of a relationship. Men rely on a woman's instinct to keep a relationship on track. Men will pursue women in the hopes of beginning a relationship, but once they are in the relationship, they look to the woman's guidance to nurture it. If women will accept the role they play and not expect a man to do what seems unnatural to him, a couple will stay open to loving and nurturing each other.
When a couple is more accepting of what each brings to the relationship, women can use their Feminine Grace to lovingly communicate their needs and their man is driven to do what he can to make her happy. That changes if she is abrasive, belittling, or nagging. Men want their women to take the lead in creating a healthy relationship, so why not take it?
Understanding the different roles men and women play in a relationship can help you avoid the nasty arguments that arise when one person does not live up to the other's expectations. Kara's book, Men Made Easy, is a great starting place for understanding men.
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